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[cancer|polls] Various updates, plus help Jay name his three tumors - Lakeshore
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Jay Lake
Date: 2012-08-20 05:02
Subject: [cancer|polls] Various updates, plus help Jay name his three tumors
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Tags:cancer, child, family, friends, funny, health, personal, polls
Tough day yesterday. I had a long talk with my parents about mortality, disease progression and my specific fears mostly around finances and lifestyle for [info]the_child. They were quite supportive.

Also had a number of difficult interactions with [info]the_child, who continues very stressed in all the obvious and expected ways. She's a great kid and a magnificent human being, and she is carrying such a load right now, generally with a lot more grace than I could have managed at her age. I am so grateful to all the friends and family who are supporting her.

On the fun and funny side, my parents got together with a number of my friends and family to buy me a new recliner. This came about because we discovered last week that my old recliner had broken springs which could not easily be repaired. At the time, I commented that if I had the money, I'd buy a well-built La-Z-Boy or some such. Quite literally under my nose they organized this group campaign to supply me with a good quality substitute. We went to the showroom late yesterday afternoon and bought a powered recliner with lift assist — as I said at the time, the chair will drive healthy me a little nuts, but it will be a huge benefit to sick me. And to be blunt, sick me in the ascendancy now.

In other news, I've decided to name my three tumors. They have become very important citizens of my body, and achieved an outsized significance in my life. So I need a way to talk about those three little bastards.

I have been collecting suggestions in comments [ jlake.com | LiveJournal ]. Now I've made a poll with a list filtered from the suggestions, based solely on the criterion of what I liked or found amusing. Help me decide! Drop in on the poll and click a favorite.

Do good, be well, and hug someone you love.

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O'Mike aka  onyxhawke
User: onyxhawke
Date: 2012-08-20 12:45 (UTC)
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How about Republican, Democrat and Media?
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Sean P. Fodera
User: delkytlar
Date: 2012-08-20 13:14 (UTC)
Subject: (no subject)
You have great on-the-ground support, Jay. Remember that they'll help you and each other, and especially for the child.

I'd like to borrow that last line above for a signature line (with attribution, of course).

As we said at my college "Certa bonum certamen" - fight the good fight.
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Jay Lake
User: jaylake
Date: 2012-08-20 16:44 (UTC)
Subject: (no subject)
Borrow away!
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Renfield
User: cuddlycthulhu
Date: 2012-08-20 14:04 (UTC)
Subject: (no subject)
I am pleased that there was not a version of the "Three Stooges" on the list that involved Shemp.
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