December 28th, 2009

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[links] Link salad plans to go see Avatar today in 3D IMAX

Don't forget the latest caption contest voting poll — I'll be closing this out today or tomorrow, and declaring a winner, so if you haven't voted yet, go check 'em out.

Atheism, cancer and me — Relinking a Christmas Eve post of mine in case you took the weekend off for holidays. Comment thread is still active, and has a lot of really good discussions, though it is quite long at this point.

My cancer and digestive health TMI post spawned an interesting comment thread on LJ — Which was then echoed, in various ways, by calendula_witch here (hysterectomy), fjm here (celiac), joycemocha here (menopause) and accioayla here (joint disorders). And possibly more I don't know about. Fascinating stuff in some of those comment threads, too, as we all talk about things people Don't Talk About.

Failblog with the "four Fs" — "Fighting, fleeing, feeding and mating." Ahem.

A Microbial EncyclopediaScientists have mapped the genomes of 56 species of microbes. I love the comments about the density of species. Interesting stuff.

Anniversary of a cosmic blast — Somehow I missed the original event. This piece from Bad Astronomy is fascinating, violence on a literally astronomical scale.

For Airline Passengers, Pat-Downs, Searches and Restroom Monitors Pilots on Sunday declared an emergency after a second man, also a Nigerian, spent an unusually long time in an airplane restroom. Oh, joy. Speaking as someone who often spends an unusually long time in restrooms, this will make flying even more of a treat. Maybe there's an upside to me being grounded for the next seven months.

?otD: Avatar or Dances With Smurfs?



12/28/2009
Body movement: n/a (60 minute urban walk forthcoming)
Hours slept: 6.25
This morning's weigh-in: 225.0
Currently reading: Living With Ghosts by Kari Sperring

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[travel] My mom, on where the flowers went

tillyjane, a/k/a my mom, spent three weeks at the beginning of this past autumn traveling around the West, much of at the Grand Canyon doing trail maintenance and habitat restoration as a volunteer. When she returned to Portland, she began writing up her days as a sort of irregular journal. The emails were so delightful that with her permission, I'm going to post them here as guest blogs — meditations on people, travel, nature and the American West.

This is her fifth installment, from an email dated September 24th, shortly after her return.


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tillyjane's previous installment, I'd Like to Get to Know You", is here: [ jlake.com | LiveJournal ]

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[cancer|personal] Walking, thinking, God again, and a bit of scavenging

Walked Buena Vista this morning solo, while calendula_witch was at yoga. Normally I walk Twin Peaks here, but given my struggles yesterday walking Buena Vista in her company — shortness of breath, off pace, mixed energy — I decided a Buena Vista repeat was in order, as from the Witchnest, Twin Peaks is 100% uphill until the turnaround, while Buena Vista is up-and-down-and-up. Both are 60 minute walks when I'm in normal condition. Today I think I did it in about 70 minutes, but I did the walk without ever stopping for breath. My pace we will not discuss, but the lungs were much better behaved. This makes me happy. Might make the Twin Peaks walk before I leave the Witchnest for the last time next Sunday.

On the way home (ie, mostly downhill) I passed another street-level informal recycling point, and scored several Brita water pitcher filters still in their sealed paks. Those suckers are spendy. Does this make me a true San Franciscan, or an aspiring homeless guy? I'm not sure.

During the course of the walk I noticed that my somatic sense of the surgery sites has changed yet again. The hallucinations of swelling in my left flank are almost gone, but I still have phantom swelling. Or phantom phantom swelling, I suppose, as earlier on they felt real, and while I still feel them now, they don't feel real anymore. Less intense. On the right chest, my festive holiday bruising is almost gone, and the feeling that someone left a Bic pen inside my chest has shrunk to something like a Cross refill cartridge. I can sleep on either side now, albeit somewhat uncomfortably, and though it's not back to normal, I can see normal from here.

I've been reflecting lately on smaller concerns as well as the big ones — those latter of course being cancer itself, my sexuality, my mental acuity during chemo, etc. The smaller ones border on the silly, but they still carry their own reality. One is, what if I get mugged, or arrested, or something? Both sides of my chest compromised and problems with my left shoulder. I'd be in agony, or worse. (Yeah, yeah, I know, but I think of these things.)

Second, what if I had a heart attack? The relative of a friend recently died of a heart attack in part because his symptoms were masked by severe flu plus a fall injuring his left side. Guess what? I have chest pain all the time, due to the neural damage from the partial thoracectomy. When walking or engaging in other vigorous activites (yes, including sex), my sternum is under pressure from my lungs not being quite right yet. My core temp swings, so sometimes I get chills and sweats. In other words, except for the left side numbness, I have the basic heart attack symptoms almost all the time.

They're not a heart attack, but still, it makes me wonder. And the standard "are you experiencing chest pains" medical screening question now requires a somewhat detailed answer.

Likewise, I now never go anywhere without a packed containing instructions about my current medical situation, including instructions for the port implant, and a sterile Huber needle, which is required to access the port, and not normally stocked in ambulances or Emergency Departments. I am currently wearing a wristband identifying me as a port implantee, and once chemo starts I'll switch to a Med Alert bracelet that documents the side effects, such as risk of severe bleeding, as well as my status as a chemotherapy patient.

Oi. Life changes, and it changes again.

In other news, blzblack and I are corresponding in comments on the Atheism post, working our way through the "pink unicorn" argument. Though I rarely see him anymore, blzblack is a dear friend in real life, and a person of sincere and questing faith. (He might describe himself differently, but that's how he looks to me.) On my walk this morning, I had an insight about faith and people. This may fall into the category "oh, look, the sky is blue", but to my atheistic eye, everything that believers invest in God comes from ourselves. Love, grace, forgiveness, salvation, comfort, morality, structure, purpose; the whole package. That blzblack chooses to invest these characteristics in God is his privilege. I invest them, and my accompanying faith, in myself and the people around me — family, intimates, friends, and total strangers alike. So perhaps we are not so different, except in our assumptions of the wellspring of these blessings.

At any rate, calendula_witch and the_child and I are off to see Avatar in 3D IMAX shortly, then lunch in Chinatown. Y'all play nice, and don't overthink. That's my job right now.