I told her I'd been experiencing a lot of depression and despair these past two weeks. Episodically, not continually, but frequently and strongly. We talked about the blatantly obvious reasons for this, and the less obvious ones.
Obvious to anyone: I have cancer. Duh. And I've hit the point in the chemo cycle where I am hard of thinking, and everything has a huge, dire edge. I'm very worried about having another metastasis and jumping right back into treatment in the spring, doing all this shit again and losing another year of my life to the disease.
Less obvious unless you're familiar with my personal situation: I continue to very much miss my vanished primary relationship, and am at a point where the emotional support of such a relationship would be hugely important if I had it. Also, this is about the time last year when my relationship with
We discussed whether to go on antidepressants.
The most disturbing part of the conversation was when we got back to the potential for further metastasis. She was pretty blunt, and said that my fear was justified and it was quite possible that was what would happen. 50/50, frankly. There aren't kind words for this, that's my life with cancer, but it still was kind of a whammy. And yes, I'd rather hear the straight dope than something kindly, but that doesn't make it any easier.
All in all, a worthwhile but not satisfying conversation. This is the world I live in.