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Jay Lake
Date: 2013-11-29 07:09
Subject: [cancer] Today we plan, tomorrow may never come
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Tags:cancer, death, family, friends, health, personal
Today, [info]mikigarrison is sitting down with me and Dad to prioritize the research she and Janet Freeman-Daily have done into clinical trials on my behalf.

I was thinking yesterday somewhere during our joyous and delicious family-and-friends Thanksgiving dinner how much the fact of my death distorts everything around me. It is a leaden weight on the fabric of my life, a singularity into which everything I am, I do, and I love, is slowly collapsing until my own personal event horizons swallows me up.

We are all born to die. I've just had the dubious privilege of examining my death in very slow motion, incrementally, for almost six years now. Everything that happens these days happens for the last time (probably). I go through the motions of my life because I do not know what else to do. And because I want to live tomorrow, I live today.

So today we plan.
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Debbie N.
User: wild_irises
Date: 2013-11-29 16:55 (UTC)
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From a distance, I value every day you have.
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Jay Lake
User: jaylake
Date: 2013-11-29 18:10 (UTC)
Thank you.
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User: girasole
Date: 2013-11-29 18:57 (UTC)
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You, and your words, are cherished. Every day.
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User: elisem
Date: 2013-11-30 00:10 (UTC)
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*hugs, if you will be hugged*
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User: Barbara Smoody
Date: 2013-11-30 04:19 (UTC)
Subject: planning.
your arc is on my mind and in my mind everyday. thank you for telling us how it is happening, it informs my life, it is an incalculable gift to us.
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